After 25 years of marriage you would think that you know your spouse pretty well.  Well, do I have news for you! You want to really get to know your spouse just quit your jobs, learn to drive an 18 wheeler and head out on the road for weeks at a time.  Then, and only then, will you really get to know the person that you are married to.  And if you are thinking you might have an idea, I am going to tell you that – no, you really don’t.  I am also going to tell you that if you do such a crazy thing, prepare for worst battle of your life, or the best thing you could do for the marriage, or both.

To summarize, I believe that I am a very lucky man …

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